Self-mastery is the key that unlocks the capacity to Master other human beings. Only to the degree that you are self-aware, and therefore have true choice in every moment of your experience will you be able to relate to the impulsivity of your own ego with the indifference of a true Master. Once, you can dominate your own ego, only then can women freely submit themselves to you. The depth of surrender is inspired only by an individual who does not need, or is attached to having anything that lies within her domain of power. Only a man that does not need her love can inspire it. The path to true Mastery is Meditation.