Unapologetic Awesomeness: So Much More than “Not Giving a F***”


Dear Men,

The title of this post is redundant given the assumption, that being a man is essentially awesome, and the only constrain placed upon the display of his awesomeness is an apologetic dependence upon others. Therefore once this apologetic dependence is eliminated, the awesomeness will be freely displayed. Only a truly independent unapologetic man is free to display his awesomeness. And only a dependent apologetic man is constrained in this display. That is to say that a man’s awesomeness is essential to his nature, and independent of anything other then his own existence. As long as you are present, you are awesome. The question then becomes, “What is essential independence? And how do you return to it?”.

Essential independence is independence that unalienable from your essence, or your essential being. Meriam Webster’s dictionary offer the following definition of independence.

a (1) : not subject to control by others : self-governing (2) : not affiliated with a larger controlling unit <an independent bookstore>

True independence requires that you remove all control over yourself from others, and return it to your essential self. Governing is the arbitration of interactions between individuals by a higher authority. If you are to be truly independent, you cannot be governed. Not by habits, social expectations, or political force. Do not think that democracy is a new institution. All power in human societies has always rested on the the people’s consent. The tyrants, kings, and dictators of history all ruled, because of the people’s willingness to obey. This willingness to obey by the people is the essence of political power. The institutions of governing may change, but this will always be the natural source of political power. The only distinguishing characteristic of modern democracy is that it has verbalized this truth. But like the verbalization, categorization, or the naming of any truth it has died and fossilized with the passing of time. We live in the vain memory of it birth, while we are presently subjected to the same environment into which it was born. 1776 was the taste of honey upon our tongues, the perfume of roses filling our lungs, the existential orgasm of love when innocence first mingles with beginnings of desire. We have yet to mourn its passing.


b (1) : not requiring or relying on something else : not contingent <an independent conclusion> (2) : not looking to others for one’s opinions or for guidance in conduct (3) : not bound by or committed to a political party

To be independent you must cease to rely on anything outside of your control. Such a contingency cannot occur without consequently obscuring your essential independence. Just as you wish to guide the opinion and conduct of your female slave, so to those who wish to enslave you want to guide your opinion and conduct. Do not let them.

c (1) : not requiring or relying on others (as for care or livelihood) <independent of her parents> (2) : being enough to free one from the necessity of working for a living <a person of independent means>


To be essentially independent you cannot require others to exist. In order for a female submissive to realize her submission, she must submit to her Dominant. For a female slave to realize her bondage, she must be owned by a Master. The submissive is a submissive only relative to the Dominant. The Dominant is Dominant because it is essential to His nature. He does not need her to exist, in order to be what he is. His very existence is a state of independence, that consequences perpetual expressions of independence when interacting with another entity. These interactions are not required by the Dominant, but rather by the submissive who must perpetually interact with the Dominant to continue her existence. This is the essence of the Dominance submissive relationship. This is an extremely polarized form of heterosexual relationships that is required to return us to the evolutionary mating homeostasis that has propagated the species for hundreds of thousand of years.

d : showing a desire for freedom <an independent manner>

To be essentially independent you must be free to act in accordance with your essential nature. To be unconstrained, unchained, unleashed, unbound, and independent. It is the nature of woman to wish to dominate all others, but submit to her man. The more valuable an entity other then herself is to her Master the more she seeks to become more valuable to her Master then that entity.

Opposite to this type expressed jealousy is when the female slave competes to become more valuble to her Master than the named entity, the natrual expression of jealousy. This type of jealousy is good, and should be understood and rewarded in the slave. The unnatural expression of a woman’s jealousy is when she seek to emotionally dominate her man into no longer valuing that entity as much as he does. For example, if a man is rewarding his female submissive with dinner at her favorite restaurant, and she express’s toward her dominant man for admiring the radiance of another woman. She is seeking to associate negative emotions with his admiration of another woman’s radiance. If  the dominant genuinely and heartfuly is enjoying the radiance, and allows his submissive to condition his mind, then she will lose respect for her Master.

Take a look at this cartoon.This is the type of absurd emotional manipulation your female submissive is trying to create, when she expresses her jealous unnaturally.

This is the type of absurd emotional manipulation your slave is trying to create when she express her jealously unnaturally. The boy is independent, precisely because he has the inherent power to be seated, but then the the teacher seeks to make his state independent on the good will of his peers. Your slave feels jealous of the entity you value more then her, precisely because she recognizes your dominance over her, her submission to you, but then she tries to express her jealousy in a dominant way.

He will no longer remain essentially independent, or free. His actions will no longer be in accordance with his essential nature. He will allow her to control him. Making her dominant. He will then open the door to being governed by her emotions. Needless to say this type of unnatural expression of jealousy by a female submissive must be punished. The teacher deserves a good spanking.

Your slave feeling jealous for the attention or pleasure of any other should also be punished. Remember that your slave is only in bondage to you, because you have granted her a type of freedom. By becoming truly submissive to your essential independence, she imbibes it from you. Because you are independent of anything else, and she is only dependent on you, she is also independent of anything, except you. Deepen your slave’s submission of you, but also develop her independence from anything else.


In order to have dominance over a woman, you must give her dominance over her own life. Because you cannot give what you do not have, it is impossible for you to dominate women without dominating your life.

(1) : not determined by or capable of being deduced or derived from or expressed in terms of members (as axioms or equations) of the set under consideration;

In order to be essentially independent your behavior cannot be predicted or deduced by the circumstances preceding them. You cannot have a psychology. You must be spontaneous, and freely expressive. Your behavior cannot be reduced to a set of “If…, then…” statements. The most historically consequential formulation of the philosophy of independence can be found in the, Declaration of Independence. There is little doubt that the Declaration of Independence is the culmination of rational thought during the course of human history. The power exercised in this one act has consequented in diverse and prfound effects on the course of human history.

This powerful antithesis to european monarchy resulted in many benefits to humanity, but is no finally revealing the absurdities inherent in the original formulation. The absurdities of allowing pearly harbor and 9/11 to manipulate the American people into supporting war, the use of media to control the dialogue on all societal issues, absolute power being invested in the federal reserve in the form of infinite economic value, and the use of the perpetual printing of the  fiat dollar to fund a global intelligence and propaganda war against competing political ideologies. Secret economic dictators using the idea of freedom, to eliminate its true experience.

Thus a new thesis must be put for forth to synthesize and transform the present accumulative thesis of social liberalism, political democracy, and economic capitalism, known as the western culture. We need the experience of true independence, and true liberty.


Syed Jillal


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